Lu's

2024

Every year, I say the same: I love recaps. This one brought incredible experiences—and, of course, a few not-so-great ones. This is 2024 learnings.

2024
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As every year, I start by saying that I love doing recaps. This year brought so many amazing experiences, along with a few not-so-great ones. Here are my lessons from my first year in my 20s.

I realized that I can't do everything, once again.

  • That sometimes we're more vulnerable than we think.
  • That it's beautiful to hold the hand of those you love.
  • That laughing is good for you, and you should do it often.
  • That it's important to hug your family.
  • That sometimes your family is bigger than it seems—you choose new members every day.
  • That life is about taking risks.
  • That playing games has so much value.
  • That sometimes we have to accept our priorities—it's not always obvious what we want to do.
  • That it's okay to choose your own path, even if you don't have references for it.
  • That exercising helps me stay focused.
  • That sleeping 8 hours per day is not overrated.
  • That I'm deeply passionate about my work, and I'm in an incredible moment in my career.
  • That I love building things just as much as I love solving problems.
  • That sometimes people believe in you more than you believe in yourself, and it's okay to trust that—it can lead you to incredible places.
  • That a grade doesn't define you; it's not what matters.
  • That sometimes you need to feel a little "failed."
  • That you don't have to compare yourself to others because you have your own path.
  • That it's good to listen to those around you.
  • That it's vital to find good mentors and that I've chosen really good ones—you know who you are, kisses and hugs!
  • That our perspective isn't always the "real" one.
  • That my friends are bulletproof.
  • That reality is sometimes more neutral than it seems.
  • That we are the ones who color the world.
  • That making a small bad decision really isn't the end of the world.
  • That it's not good to punish ourselves. Things happen, but what matters is how we respond to those situations.
  • That things sometimes go wrong, more frequently than you might expect.
  • That we need to embrace our ego and learn when to let it go.
  • That dealing with being wrong is hard but necessary.
  • That getting on a plane to another continent can be dizzying.
  • That some people feel like they've always been there.
  • That we're freer when we worry less about yesterday and tomorrow.
  • That we are living in interesting times.

I understood that we are human and being human is extremely exciting.